Oneitis

Anyone else have difficulty functioning day to day because you always have someone on your mind?

It's been a solid 3 years since I've interacted with them, but some nights, I remember playing games with them until my mom had to come and tell me to shut the fuck up because it was already 2am or the times where we just sat up and had late night talks. They were my best friend and I find it hard to believe anyone could ever replace them.

20 comments

Wizard707

Mar 05, 2020

Ya-- It's hard to believe they moved on too. But apparently its easy for them because it's in their DNA.

In the caveman days their hubby's got killed hunting sabertooth's so they have evolved to detach.

Also when they were conquered by neighboring tribes they would wife-up the victorious or else be killed.

Reiko Nagase

Mar 06, 2020

That sucks, but have you tried reaching out?

OkMichael

Mar 06, 2020

Reaching out to who? My oneitis? Multiple times. I know they've moved on and they've even semi-recently told me that they never felt romantic feelings for me the way I do for them.

Skyrim

Jun 08, 2020

hi gangseibah

GloomyDoomer42069

Jun 10, 2020

Been through it man, It blows learning and witnessing true female nature at times

But 2 pieces of advice that helped me:

First, female's act based on emotion, and these emotions have been built through millions of years of evolution. If some roastie bitch doesn't want to fuck you, and it hurts your ego, it should. You are doing something wrong. Don't do things FOR women, but if women don't want to fuck you, then find out why they don't like you and realize that there are evolutionary reasons for her desire to avoid men like you. Its not all just being tough and strong either, women are attracted to confidence, competence and social status. These are all virtues you should strive for.

Second, taking time to be upset and digest your emotions is cool but you it's been 3 years get over it. Women are valued for their bodies, men are valued for their time (if their time is valuable). By hitting her up years after she rejected you shows that your time isn't worth much. Women know they are useless, so any man who wastes time and energy chasing them must not value their time.

Watch some of patrice o neal's "black phillip" radio show on youtube to learn about women, or fucking jordan peterson or just evolutionary psychology whatever. Stop being such a fucking pussy tho bro get better